wasup? my name is roger im new to dad daily my wife is a cafemomaholic! she found out about this site and sined me up dont really know what is about yet being that im always at work, a lil about me: i love to fish and bbq with the family im a dad of three 2 of them are my step kids but i raise them like my own im the only dad they have ever known thier dad is a loser and has never been there for them i met my now wife in 2000 and she had 2 kids already they were then 14mos(boy)and almost 3(girl) i fell in love with those kids and i took them as my own we never use the word"stepparent" because to me those are my kids!i have been married since 2002 and we have 1 son together she wants another baby but i dont think its a good idea just now! our oldest boy is8 and has add and our youngest boy is 5 and has adhd we are trying to do this w/o meds but it effen sucks just wanted to introduce myself and maybe talk to local dads who have similar interests!