Alright, as requested, here is every thought. I think that what you are going through is less about having a child and more about facing the fact that you are getting old. It doesn't matter that you are in as good of shape as you were when you were…
You also HAVE to talk to your bank (or whomever granted your loan) about potential deferment plans or other options they have to avoid foreclosure. The bank also loses a lot of income on foreclosures - so it's in their best interest to avoid this si…
I don't think you're going to like my advice - but here it is anyway: don't say anything. He is a grown man and he knows what he is doing - he is well aware of the positives and the negatives of his relationship. And my experience is there is usuall…
First off - I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage. We went through two and it was really hard on our relationship. I think men and women deal with grief differently - and that is all the most evident when you're both grieving the same loss.
Some…
Oh HELL NO! I would be pissed! I can't believe you even have to ask. I would take the tape out into the front yard - break it into pieces with a bat, leave it there and see if she has the nerve to even ask which tape it was.
I get that people have…
Try, "I"m not"
or, "I actually just turned 100"
or, "I use very expensive facial soap"
or, "I just had a chemical peal"
or, "it's all the plastic surgery"
or, "you know what they say, 'black don't crack'" (especially funny if you are not black)
I co…
Sounds like this kid has gotten screwed over by all of the adults in her life - and is now learning how to "work the system". It also sounds like your wife is working you - letting you be the bad guy so that she can be the good guy. You are not the…
It's interesting though, because I was just reading about the infantilization of today's kids - and the author was saying (and I'm oversimplifying for brevity) that there has been this prolongation of childhood because children are not allowed to pl…
Well, why would you NOT go? Do you have work or other conflicts? Can you not make certain appointments? I'd say if time permits, you should really go to all of them. Nobody is going to begrudge you missing a couple hours a month for a doctor's appoi…
Alright - I don't usually say nice things, but here it goes. My wife is fucking hilarious. I mean, hands down the funniest person I've ever met. She's definitely hot, and very smart - but after 10 years she can still make me laugh my ass off.
Three month olds are boring - and bitchy. Frankly, they're just not that interesting - and I'm sure the feeling is mutual. They don't really like anything that doesn't have boobs.
Give the guy a break - and DON'T PRESSURE HIM TO BOND with the kid.…
To be perfectly honest, I think that being the only woman on a site intended for men is a little narcisistic. Being on a site intended for women, you are simply one of the girls - being on a site for men, you stick out as the *only* woman. Your post…
I have to disagree with this. I'm not much for "playing with" my daughter. She's 8, and my wife and I have always stayed home with her, so she gets a lot of one-on-one time. We drive together, walk together, talk together, read, even watch TV togeth…
That's part of the reason why it's hard to have your first kid at a young age. Very few people I know have found their dream job by the age of 22. Don't think you're stuck at Lucky's just because you have a kid - when my daughter was born (I was 22)…
I managed a Starbucks for about a year when my daughter (now 8) was 3. My wife was going to school, and I had just finished. The job was hard and the pay was shit - but it was perfect at the time. I could work in the morning from 4 until 12, and got…