i dont know my wife gets lost on there for hours after the kids are asleep. i work nights so i can understand her being lonely and needing other moms to talk to, i dont' know . but her sister is on there all day and all night long. she never cleans the house and i hear it from bil that there youngest has a diaper rash b/c mother dearest cant tear herself away from the cpu. thats addicted. she needs help. im just glad my wife does not let it take over her life.
Cafemom made my wife fat. She never goes out, never cleans the house and she is getting kind of repulsive because of that damned site. Addicted doesn't come close. She goes to pick up the kids and get groceries but she doesn't cook. Buys all of this ready made crap that she can just shove at the kids and me. I'm about ready to lose it.
We can't really blame CM for that, can we? Too much of good or bad...IS BAD!!
Probably she is lacking attention from you? Probably she can't have a conversation with you without a fight? Did you try to understand why she ignores you, the house and other things "YOU MISS"??
My wife is on there as well. Not as much as she used to be, new games have been coming out that she spends all her time on. She was never into the drama. She has some friends on there, they get together once every few months for a girls night out. I think it is good for her. She is a gamer, and would so much rather stay in and play games instead of going out, I am glad her cafemom friends get her out of the house, and they make sure she is drunk when she comes home, lol.