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FOUND A TAPE
Okay guys !! Need some advice . I am layed off from work , so I do some cleaning around the house while my wife is at work. I was putting some stuff away in her drawer and found a tape. I didnt know what it was . So I stuck in the VCR. OMG ! It is a tape of my wife and exboyfreind of about 6 years ago having sex!! What should I do ? Ask her about it or just let it go ?
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Permalink Reply by Kevin Burke on -
was the tape from 6 yrs ago or was it more recent? If it was from before y'all got together then just let it go, but if its more recent then you definatly need to bring it up and talk about it.
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Permalink Reply by TODD on -
We have been together for 3 1/2 years now. It was clearly before we got together . Thanks for your advice Kevin.
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Permalink Reply by Chris Graves on -
My question would be then, why is she keeping it?
Can you imagine if the situation was reversed? How would SHE react? Mine gets upset if she finds an old PICTURE of any ex-girlfriends; can you imagine what she'd do if there was a VIDEO?
URK.... don;t even want to think about it. I'd probably wake up with my peices-parts in a jar by the bed.
Depending on her housecleaning skills, she might have just forgotten it was there. Best thing to do; destroy it. If she's aware it's there, you'll know when she asks what happened to it. However, it's kinda like robbing a drug lord; you KNOW they'll never go to the police about it; similarly, she might not even want to admit it's existance, so it will never come up. Problem solved.
BTW, for the health of your marriage, QUIT SNOOPING! :)
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Permalink Reply by TODD on
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But if she didnt want to admit its existence , then why didnt she discard it?
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Permalink Reply by Lightning on
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question? Did you find is amongst a bunch of other videos?
If not it could still be possible that she packed it away years ago and had just forgotten about it.
Eather way i would probley ask her about it anyways.
Remeber amongst all things to thy own self be true
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Permalink Reply by Eric Small on -
I would want to know why she had it. Is she still watching it and if yes why? This is something you need to confront her on or it will eat at you.
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Permalink Reply by Rob on -
Im with Eric, if it bothers you bring it up, if not just toss it and call it a day. As for snooping I hardly count putting things away in their proper place so don't worry about that aspect, a simple question of why she has it should go towards getting rid of some of the anxiety of it.
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Permalink Reply by J. P. M. on
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Oh HELL NO! I would be pissed! I can't believe you even have to ask. I would take the tape out into the front yard - break it into pieces with a bat, leave it there and see if she has the nerve to even ask which tape it was.
I get that people have histories - few are virgins when they get married - but to shove it in your face like that by keeping it in your collective house?!?! Dude, I almost never say this - but grow a pair. If she doesn't respect you at least you can respect yourself.
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Permalink Reply by keith schur on -
i would ask her why she needs if she got you
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Permalink Reply by Quinton on
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If i were you...
I would wait for her to come home, make her some tea while she sits in front of the TV... then i would innocently put away the stuff in her drawer and find the tape all over again. I would then casually walk up to the the VCR, press play and take a seat next to her... DONT SAY ANYTHING AFTER THAT just be quiet (almost catatonic if you can). Let her fall over herself and try to explain. at this point you should just walk out and go to your local pub for a drink.
This lesson she learns will guarantee you a faithful wife forever.
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Permalink Reply by Nicholas Poulsen on -
If the tape is before you guys got together than I think that it's no big deal. I wouldn't even bring it up. But if it's bothering you alot, than sit down and talk about it with her.
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